Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Intimate Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend Before Making a Marriage Commitment

When you are involved in a love relationship, it is a nice thing to ask your boyfriend some intimate questions to see just how much the two of you have in common and to know the future of the relationship. You may be surprised at just how little you know about your boyfriend. Here are five intimate questions you can ask your boyfriend.

1. Darling, what is my birthday? This is an important question because it helps you to know how important you are to him. If he is actually in love with you, he should remember little things that matters. Yes, he should remember special dates of his loved ones. However, if you have not been going with him for long, he may not know your special days such as your birthday.

2. What is your favourite thing to do with me?
Asking your boyfriend this question will help you identify whether you share the same interests and hobbies. If you like swimming and he likes going to the movies, you may have to rethink your plans the next time you are together. Learning the answer to this will also help you to find compromise in your relationship when it comes to planning time together.


3. Do you feel comfortable coming to me for anything? If he says that he does not feel comfortable, you should reflect on whether or not you make yourself open and available to him. If you have done this, it may be a personal problem that he has with opening up and this question will give you a chance to help him to overcome that.

4. Do you completely trust me on every level?
This is probably the most important question for your boyfriend. Trust is absolutely the biggest part of any love relationship and if he does not trust you, then that is something that needs to be worked out immediately. Find out whether or not his mistrust has any basis on reality or if it is his own insecurity. Either way, it needs to be talked about openly and not ignored.


5. How far do you want this relationship to go?Both of you need to be aware of how the other feels about the future of your relationship. So, now is the time to get honest answers about where this relationship is headed to. If you have different expectations, then you are better off knowing now rather than finding out later and getting hurt. This is another issue that can be easily worked through if you are proactive in dealing with it.

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