There are some nagging questions that can ruin your romance in your love relationship with your boyfriend. Save yourself both the headache and ask something else, other than the nagging ones. Hare are six deadly things you should never ask you boyfriend.
1. Never ask your boyfriend to lose his friends so that he can spend time with you. Making him choose between you and his friends will make him intensely worried and get burnt out. His other friends are important as you are to him but really, does he really have to choose? Think of the same way if he asks you to choose him over your girlfriends. How will you feel?
2. Don’t ask him more about his ex-girlfriends. It is not necessary to be inquiring more about your boyfriend’s former girlfriends. Well, even if he answers some of your questions about his ex-girlfriends, there is every possibilities that he will just tell you lies about his ex-girlfriends. The past is past and he is finally with you. That is what is important. In fact, learn to appreciate what is here and now.
3. Don’t form the habit of asking him where he is going every time. This is a form of nagging and it is not a very attractive trait in a love affair and the more you ask this nagging question, the more your boyfriend is going to get tired and will result to a lot of misunderstanding in the future. Get a life and let him live his own. He is not yet your husband.
4. Don’t be keen in asking him when he would like to meet your parents or when you will meet his parents. This can make a guy sweat buckets. Well, you can make it simple by saying that you would love it if he will meet your parents. But if you bug him about it all day everyday, he will certainly going to get frightened. Let him be the one that will initiate a move for that.
5. Never ask him whether he likes your size or shape. Well, even if he offers you an honest opinion, you may not be satisfied and will surely upset you no matter how he assures you that you are pretty. The best solution is: love your body, whatever its size and shape. That is even going to turn him on.
6. Never Ask him how much he loves you. It is an unhealthy practice to be asking your boyfriend every time whether he loves you or not. In fact, guys want their girlfriends who are confident with their relationship. So, constant disturbance for re-assurance of love will stress your boyfriend and may eventually lead him from pulling away from you.
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